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Is it too late to make my feelings known

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Cutiekatienow · 24/09/2019 09:52

I have recently separated . I was in a very unhappy and lonely marriage and became close to a friend . Boundaries were crossed but we both stopped it as I was married and he is a good man . There was attraction and chemistry there on both sides .we reverted back to friends with lines drawn around it. Nothing more inappropriate or mildly flirtatious or gushing etc. It was awkward at first but bacame back to the way things were . I am
Now single but he is in a relationship. He doesn’t really talk about her but they are together and it seems to be a slow burner. Do I leave or now. I still have feelings and I believe that he does too.

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Idontwanttotalk · 24/09/2019 12:02

He has already had to step back because you are a married woman. He clearly would have been quite happy to be the OM.

You have feelings for him and need to take a big step back because he already has a partner. I fear you are likely to become the OW.

Just remember, if you do get together, that he has no respect for fidelity. If he would have taken things further with you while you were with your husband, he would certainly have no qualms about pursuing another woman if he was with you.

Cutiekatienow · 24/09/2019 12:07

Thanks. I do see that point of view. However he did not pursue me sexually when I was
Married . He did not make any moves on me ever .

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