To be tired!!

[Shatteredmummy30]

I've had such a busy week, up everyday with Ds, working, housework, tonight I got in from work sorted out dinner, done a washing, done dishes, bathed ds put him to bed etc n god forbid it's only 11pm ish n I'm falling asleep when dp has sat listening to a podcast the WHOLE night n done absolutely nothing

Why has he done nothing?

He's had ds while I was working, but even then when I have ds myself houseworks always done n then I go to work as I work evenings

Single mothers all around the world manage to look after the children AND do the housework. Read him the riot act!

Christ almighty, a woman who is clearly run ragged posts for a little support and all you can do is pull her up over the omission of two letters? Hold your own bloody lobster!

No wonder you are tired. Give him a list of chores when he has ds - if he acts like a child, treat him like one. Like @GibbonLover said, I would be reading the riot act to my dh if he acted like this.

@HoldMyLobster is that really necessary?

Am I seriously getting cheek because I shortened the word AND?

Grow up!

On another note reading the riot act before bed seems to have worked a bit I'm just up AND that sleep felt great haha

It’s no surprise you’re so tired! Time to sit down with your H and draw up a list of all the things he should and needs to be doing.

Don’t keep putting up with this shit OP!

Thanks @NoSauce I don't understand why he doesn't realise how much I do and why I get so tired, I purposely leave dishes and ask him to do them but guaranteed I get home from work and they've doubled cause he's made dinner. Somedays it's never ending

He does realise OP. But he’s leaving it all for you to do probably because he knows you will. It’s not fair. Don’t let him keep getting away with this!

I think that's exactly what it is, he knows if it's left long enough I'll just do it.