This may seem an overreaction but my feelings feel so hurt. DP of 7 years(don't live together but stay over approx 3/4nights a week,no children,saving for deposit). Anyway I finished work early, went swimming and got ready with make up,blowdried hair just in case I went out this evening . Rang DP and asked if he wanted to go for dinner, said no pressure as he'd had a busy day at work. DP said no, he was going to chill and have early night as was knackered after work. Fair enough, I went round to my mums and had a nice evening catching up instead. Cue to phone call at 11pm from a drunk DP who has decided a short while after we'd spoken that he was in fact not too tired to go out and had joined his friends at the pub all evening. I wouldn't have even cared so much if he had text to say -i might even have joined them, but just feel so hurt that it didnt even cross his mind to let me know? I just feel like if he was too tired and supposedly exhausted to see me yet raring to go to the pub it's quite obvious where I'm standing in the list of priorities? Just feel a bit shit really but wondering if I am being a bit of a princess. In my mind I was really excited to see him this evening and we had talked about us seeing each other on the phone earlier today aswell. Just feel like I can't stand the thought of being a pub widow.