AIBU to feel like this?

[RainbowGirls]

Went out with a friend recently, her friend came along I do know her but not too well. We were talking about a mini break away (all 3 of us) then my friends friend piped up and said yes but just me & you (my friend & Her) in other words not me.

I felt horrible & embarrassed. My friend didn’t say anything I think she was too shocked, she apologised later for this.

I don’t understand this, I’d never leave someone out even worse say it in front of them.

AIBU to take this personally?

YANBU what a weirdo! Even if she didn't want to go away with you, who actually SAYS that in front of you? Normal people would say later in private "I don't want a mini break with her..."

Did you discuss it in depth with your friend?

I would try not to take it personally - says more about your friends friend than you. That said 3 can be an awkward number of people and I think I would give it a miss given you have had a taste of her behaviour.

@hennypennyhorror no I didn’t bring it up again I don’t want to seem petty or trash someone behind their back, my friend just said she’s funny

It's not that weird not to want to go away with someone you don't really know, but to be so blatant about it is really really odd

@Namechangeforthiscancershit

Your right. I wouldn’t want to go away with her now I just thought it’d br great to get to know her more. But your both right

Yanbu to think her incredibly rude and odd.

Either she is normally a polite, friendly and normal person, but you are so inherently repulsive and irritating she felt compelled to speak out. Or she is an ill mannered, socially inept twat that behaves badly towards most people. As the former would be a ludicrous conclusion to leap to the latter is most probable so yabu to take it personally.

YANBU. That’s horrible.

I went out with a friend and her friend who I’d never met before. I had just split from my partner so my friend was asking me about it and her friend kept interrupting to show her (not me, deliberately) photos on her phone of the two of them together from previous nights out and trying to change the topic to make it about her and friend’s Friendship. I get she wasn’t interested in my break up but she could have sat politely for 10 minutes while I caught my friend up. She just ended up coming across as a jealous immature cow who couldn’t cope with her friend having other friends.

@trainspottingwelsh Wow!

Why wow?

@trainspottingwelsh
You have thrown me. I guess it didn’t cross my mind she could see me like that by barely knowing me

I think we have crossed wires. I wasn’t for a moment suggesting you must be so hateful that a normal person might have justification for treating you that way on such brief acquaintance. In fact the exact opposite, she must be a twat in general so no need to take it personally.

What a dick! Next time you three are out together you should say to your friend "oh, I didn't realise you were inviting HER"

But I am a vindictive child at times...

@trainspottingwelsh my mistake! Apologies read your comment wrong

No need to apologise, it no doubt sounded different in my head than it read!