NC as don't want to link to previous posts. Family member, who I'm close to, has been living with her partner for less than a year. Never met him as family member lives a two hour flight from me and they weren't yet living together the last time I stayed with her. He is separated but not divorced (according to her it hasn't started) and has 3DCs of his own. She and he now have all the kids EOW.
Family member stayed with me last weekend and said she is now trying for a baby with him. However I can't help but feel that family member is potentially in a vulnerable situation having a baby with a man who isn't divorced, who could have to contribute a lot financially as a result of divorce and who she hasn't been with for that long, but I also don't know if I'm being horribly judgemental?
(She hasn't asked for my advice, so I'm not going to give it out of the blue.)