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Will they just remove my tubes or my ovaries?

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cjt110 · 18/09/2019 20:25

I have asked to be sterilised and my GP has referred me. Great stuff. One box ticked.

I've been doing to reading. I'm on the depo jab and there is a 1 in 2,000 chance of getting pregnant. The chance falling pregnant with tied tubes is also 1 in 2,000.

So... do I go and see gynae? Or is it pointless?

It only seems "worth" it if my ovaries are removed. Otherwise why have an op to do what the jab does?

So... will they take my ovaries or only tie my tubes?

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QueenofPain · 18/09/2019 20:54

I’ve no idea why you’ve gone and asked for this when you’ve clearly absolutely no idea what it is for. Waste of a GP appointment.

Abouttime1978 · 18/09/2019 20:54

You also cold explore the hysterectomy options.

I think (could be wrong) that some trusts are now removing them vaginally, so less invasive than an open hysterectomy.

Bit extreme but it depends on how serious you are about never ever getting pregnant

SerenDippitty · 18/09/2019 20:55

I may have asked this before but I can’t understand why, when performing sterilisation, they don’t remove the tubes completely. This would make sterilisation 100% effective with no long term health effects.

gamerchick · 18/09/2019 20:56

They won't take your ovaries.

I couldn't take the depo, my mental health does not do well on hormonal contraceptive. Thankfully husband has had the snip many moons ago.

WingBingo · 18/09/2019 20:58

I’ve had my tubes removed,

It was keyhole, but an overnight stay.

0% change of getting pregnant.

cjt110 · 18/09/2019 21:01

@QueenofPain I asked the GP for referral as I do not want to have any more pregnancies. Not a waste to be referred and discussed with the appropriate physician.

@SerenDippitty I can only think because of ectopic risks?

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timshelthechoice · 18/09/2019 21:02

You also cold explore the hysterectomy options.

That's not an option for purposes of contraception.

cjt110 · 18/09/2019 21:02

@WingBingo was this through normal sterilisation referal?

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cjt110 · 18/09/2019 21:05

So I can only think that it's worth going to discuss any options?

I wanted to be sterilised at 16.

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Aquamarine1029 · 18/09/2019 21:08

When I had my tubes tied it was keyhole and back home a few hours later. Best thing I ever did.

timshelthechoice · 18/09/2019 21:09

What options? Sterilisation is occluding the Fallopian tubes. There are people who also use an implant or a Mirena on top of being sterilised, that's possible.

Katex888 · 18/09/2019 21:16

How old do you have to be for this? My GP said I’m too young (I’m 34) and I might change my mind later on. I kept trying to explain I’m done with having kids, I’d rather jump in quick sand then have another baby. I was still refused

cjt110 · 18/09/2019 21:19

@Katex888 I'm 32. My son is 5. And they can note my mental decline since I had him

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eladen · 18/09/2019 21:23

Even a minimally invasive hysterectomy would leave you feeling half dead for at least six months and has serious implications.

Gather all the information you need to make a decision. That's part of a doctor's job! It's not a waste of their time ensuring patients are informed.

Purpleartichoke · 18/09/2019 21:26

You do not want your ovaries removed. There is no guarantee you will tolerate hormone replacement.

Getting off hormonal birth control is reason enough to get your tubes tied. It carries assorted health risks and can negatively impact mental health.

Aquamarine1029 · 18/09/2019 21:27

@Katex888 I had mine at 28 but I went private and I have never, ever regretted it. I'm 47 now. The NHS thinks women are too stupid and flakey to know what they want in regards to sterilisation.

Cryalot2 · 18/09/2019 21:28

I was sterilized about 25 years ago . I can only speak highly of it.
Dh had a vasectomy that failed, I was in having minor womens surgery and they mentioned contraception and I told them . They offered it and I had it done and can only say it was great and go for it.
Had a late menopause, but no major issues and it was not the nightmare celebs make out. My worst was mood swings but there was so much going on that it could not be totally blamed . Forgetfulness is my biggie
Good wishes on whatever you decide .

Beldon · 18/09/2019 22:02

I was looking at being sterilised at same time as c section. Consultant said they remove large section of tubes now so it now takes away possibility of it failing

WingBingo · 19/09/2019 17:42

@cjt110 it was during a different procedure and they did whilst they were in there

timshelthechoice · 19/09/2019 17:47

They don't as standard do a salpingectomy (Fallopian tube removal) for contraception.

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