SIL babysits a few times every other week but the past few months she's been very unreliable.
She's not been giving DD the food and drinks we provide for her and has been taking her to McDonald's or just giving her chocolate and biscuits. Caught her out on a few occasions lying about it as she left loose food in the pram bag (ketchup everywhere) or found the remains of biscuits tucked away in the pram. I wouldn't have minded if she had given her the healthy food we packed first or had told us she would be eating out do we're not wasting the food.
I then realised she had been stealing from the pram bag, everything from nappies, clothes and cutlery to sudocream, Calpol and my asthma inhalers I'd been keeping in there ( took me a while to catch on!)
I'm sure it's her as when I mentioned specific items they showed back up in the bag without her saying anything. DH didn't see it as much of an issue although he is also convinced she's stealing, so I dropped it.
Today she was 40 minutes late picking her up after DH arranged for her to babysit and stay for dinner when she brought DD back (she refuses to babysit at our house). Then was over an hour late bringing her back and wouldn't answer her phone just texted she'd get the bus soon.
I had no idea where she was as MIL said she left at 4 but didn't arrive until gone 6, it's only a 20 minute journey.
Then made DH literally collect DD off the bus as she doesn't get off, just pushes the pram off and stated she was going to a friends, knowing we'd made her dinner.
The lateness threw off the whole bedtime routine making DD quite irritable.
DH doesn't seem as bothered as "thats just how she is."
I don't want her babysitting again as I don't trust her, AIBU?
It seems I'm the only one that's upset over it all.