tto feel he should realise he is hurting me?

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My DH is in.a very bad place mentally at the moment and is drinking and taking his problems out on me.

Last nkght he went AWOL until 2am as I asked him.if he had been drinking as he really should not be.As he had a problem.with it. He then told mevI am.controlling and stormed out. I was in.bits worried as he has passed out before.

There has been no apology today of anythjng said in front of dc or how upset he made me.

I spent all day liasing to try and find him.a counsellor as it is very bad..Then he comes home presumably drumk again.and starts yelling at me and tells me I don't care and goubg on about washing I had not done as I felt so down all day and i also was like screw you you left me last night with teo children and no responsibility to them. I tjen started sobbing , at which point he told me oh it is all about you isn't it.

I can't gp on like this. I can't feel empathy towards someone been.so mean.

I need help as I am.feeling sp depressed..What dp I do?

OI have no family in.the country so feel a but trapped.

Do you have a Children's Centre in your area? They can usually provide support with a whole range of issues. Our Libraries also act as mini council information centres.

You would be better off alone than having to put up with this. Think about it, you are a single parent already. Contact your health visitor, citizens advice and women's refuge. At least you could start to find out what support is there for you and you would feel less isolated. So sorry you are going through this, he sounds awful

Obviously this is not about you. You are not a bad person because you have not done the washing. He is deflecting his anger like a selfish teenager because you are an easy target.