I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 5 months, we kind of work together he does full time, I do one day in the same office so know the same people from work that he does. He asked me about 3 months in if I minded people at work knowing about us and I said I didn’t.
There’s one man who works there he’s particularly close too, he’s given him lifts outside of work, they text occasionally etc but my bf has never mentioned to him about us.
AIBU to find this a bit odd? I don’t expect him to make a big announcement and understand wanting to keep work and personal life separate but just find it a bit odd that he’s never mentioned in passing that we’ve been out to see a film or plans for the weekend that we’ve had to him since he’s more friendly with him. I’m starting to feel like hes maybe not wanting to mention it because he doesn’t see us as being serious and is keeping his options open so wouldn’t want people asking if things changed between us.
Am I overthinking or would you expect someone to talk about their gf to work friends they spend a lot of time with?