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AIBU to ask how to meet men?

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Blythesummer32 · 17/09/2019 21:12

Im 32, no kids, been single for a while. I’m frankly a bit bored of life and realise that I need to expand my social circle a bit more and just get a bit more va va boom into it. Thing is pretty much all my friendship group and I have several are women! I went to an all girls school, even my time at uni seemed to be dominated by great female friendships and I really didn’t have much interaction with men until my 20s and even then it’s been limited. I make friends very easily with women and I’m definitely more comfortable around them but I also think just generally I don’t seem to even come into contact with men. I freelance a lot so tend to work alone but even working I don’t come across many men.

My hobbies are all quite solitary or also again tend to be female dominated. Where am I going wrong? At this rate I might just sign up for a mechanics course!

So please vipers help me!

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IsobelRae23 · 18/09/2019 16:21

I become single 2 months ago, whinged on fb was I ever going to meet a man? Had 7 messages from single male friends asking me out for a date. I’m going out with one Friday night! Really looking forward to it. Could be a way 🤷🏻‍♀️

Minta85 · 18/09/2019 16:59

I met a boyfriend at a Lindyhop dance class and DH at a Ceroc dance class, so please don't write them off as they can be good ways of meeting men. Where i live a lot of men work in tech and software jobs and go to related Meetup.com groups, so this could be a way of meeting men.

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