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WIBU to take a lodger instead of renting rooms on AirBnB

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RobynsMama · 17/09/2019 15:01

I currently rent my spare bedrooms out on AirBnB on the days my LO is at her dads and I’m at work (I’m a nurse and work nights so it really doesn’t impact much on my life or hers)

It’s good money and allows me to just work my two nights a week and be around for my daughter the rest of the time and I’m really lucky to be in a position to have the space to do it.

However recently I’ve found the renting to a different person every week really stressful, people are getting more demanding with when they can check in/out (I’m not really that flexible because bc of work), the extra washing and admin, they leave the kitchen/bathroom in a state, go into my living room when it’s off limits (I rent two of the rooms out so they have a sort of living space) and this is people with good reviews on the site. It’s become a source of stress and something I really dread.

I’m thinking of taking a lodger instead, and renting those two rooms to them (they’d obviously have full access to the kitchen and bathroom, just have their own living space and bedroom). They’d do their own laundry and there’d be more of an expectation to keep the place tidy because they’re living there too.

BUT, having a lodger would mean they’re there all week, I’ve been used to just having someone in two days a week when I’m either not there or sleeping, and obviously this would affect my little girl as well.

I spoke to a friend about this and she said I was mad to consider taking a full time lodger, but the airbnb income isn’t steady all year round, there’s a bit of a boom in the August (fringe) and December (Christmas markets) but it can wane at other times and I’d like to keep being around like I am for my daughter until she’s at school which isn’t for a couple of years yet. Has anyone got any experience of having a lodger when they’re DCs were small? Am I unreasonable to give up a good thing? I don’t want to get into a contract then not be able to kick someone out if they turn out to be awful. I feel inadequately prepared to sort this out 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

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Enterthewolves · 17/09/2019 15:06

I can’t help on the impact on your family but if you are a residential landlord (ie have a lodger) your lodger doesn’t have any security of tenure and you only have to give reasonable notice (normally a rental period - so if they pay weekly a week - but it can be less/immediate if something bad happened).

FreckledLeopard · 17/09/2019 15:12

I've had a fair few lodgers over the years and they've been fine. The income is tax free under the Rent a Room scheme (up to a £7500 per year) and I found having a lodger was good in terms of cat feeding etc when we went away.

You can have a lodgers' agreement in place and a lodger has no rights of occupation that a tenant might have, so they're much easier to evict if you don't get on.

Downside is that it can be hit and miss as to who you get. Some might use endless heating and electricity and so your bills will go up. Some keep themselves to themselves, others interfere in your life - it's a mixed bag but hopefully you'll find someone you like and trust.

HollowTalk · 17/09/2019 15:19

I assume you're in Edinburgh?

I wouldn't want to do AirBnB when people were in my house without my being there. It seems like it would only be a matter of time before something horrible happened.

Could you ask at the universities whether any PhD students need accommodation? Trouble is then, if someone is at home all day then the heating bills will go up a lot.

Is there a Monday-Friday lodging scheme up in Edinburgh? That would be ideal.

Newtothis2017 · 17/09/2019 15:40

I have lodgers from a close by university and have done since they were little. It can be a bit annoying at times but all things considered it has worked well for us. I have rules and only take females. And my kids have really liked most of them

LadyCarolinePooterVonThigh · 17/09/2019 15:56

University is an excellent idea. Plenty of lecturers need mid week only lodgings, especially if they manage to have a compressed week. They will shoot off home at the weekends. ATM my DD is hosting a lecturer she knows 3 nights a week, it's very common.

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