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My 16 year old was mugged

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5onit · 16/09/2019 07:35

Posting here for traffic and support. It happened on Friday, on her way home from college. It's a specialized subject college a few towns over so none of her friends go there and she doesn't know anyone there, least of all ones who travel home the same route as her. So she dealt with it completely on her own. It's a huge town with a huge train station and several platforms, and it happened around 4:30 while she was waiting for her train. She said it was 2 lads about her age who threatened to knife her if she didn't hand her stuff over. She didn't even have anything worthwhile, no cash and a 3-year-old cracked phone. Not that it stopped them, they've also done off with her 2 weeks of coursework and her college lanyard. Bastards. Worst of all there were plenty of commuters about but none of them helped her after the incident even though DD said she was hyperventilating.

She doesn't want to get the train today (understandably) so DH is driving her. This can't happen forever though as DH had to call into work and say he's going to be late, and I am not able to drive. I don't know what to do, she's fucking terrified.

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MaMaMaMySharona · 16/09/2019 10:47

Littlemeadow123 I don't think she's suggesting any of that at all - you're being overly harsh to someone who is putting forward some good ideas to help her (any anyone else) in the future.

TriDreigiau · 16/09/2019 10:56

I'd talk to the station staff - see if they can keep an eye on her for next few weeks. It may be a spat of simlar attacks in which case transport police may be around more and buy her a personal alarm to help her feel more secure and so she can summon help or frighten attackers off more easily.

Is it possible to take her or have someone go with her on the train a few times to help her regain her confidence rather than driving her?

One of DH collegues in his 20s was mugged by some teens - it left him anxious and he felt he should have handled it better - but handing over your stuff and getting hell out of their if someone is threatening to stab you is a good way to handle it.

TriDreigiau · 16/09/2019 11:02

If there are any local self defense course or ones the collage might be running - that might be a good idea as well for her - to get her confidence to travel by herself again.

80daysaroundtheworld · 16/09/2019 15:02

Even if it looked like a BLATANTLY OBVIOUS mugging...people would still walk by - or worse - FILM IT ....

I'm quite a petite woman and was attacked by two huge blokes- on a busy road about 7pm, was on my own

There was a bus stop of about 10 people within 15 feet, and they all stood and watched - and it was very obvious, they had me on the floor and I was screaming ..., people were walking by.....

Lvsel · 16/09/2019 15:30

Scumbags so sorry this happend to her. In this situation would say it's best to go police due to the several cameras in and out the station.
Are you able to drop her to college or is there another route?

Lvsel · 16/09/2019 15:33

Honestly likely people wouldnt have got involved.
When I was 16 a guy tried to drag me down a dark road with no street lights in front of people I was screaming to get off of me which he slightly punched me and told me he had a knife. He then after I struggled with him tried to take my phone.

This was in full view of several people at a bus stop and people walking down the road nobody got involved..

People are cowards these days

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