I need advice please for tomorrow.
I’m a hard worker and my job often involves working long past my contracted hours depending on the needs of the job.
Contracted hours are-
8:30-17:00 mon-wed
08:30-16:30 thurs
08:30-16:00
Last week mom-wed, I worked a minimum of 08:30-19:45 - no issues with this. My manager agreed for me to take this TOIL back on Friday afternoon. Perfect I thought as my Dad lives away from me and he was visiting for the weekend starting from Friday afternoon.
3:15, my manager rings me and tells me to prepare for coming into work as an ‘emergency’ has come in and she might need me for it. I told her that I was unable to do this for the above reasons and seeing as I’ve not seen my Dad for months, I wasn’t prepared to let him down. She said that if I wasn’t able to come back in, then I should of booked the time as annual leave and not TOIL. I explained that I wasn’t aware of this but I won’t be coming back in.
I asked her who the duty worker was (we each on the team have a duty day). She said that x person but couldn’t get hold of this worker. She said she’d see what she could do but to prepare myself for having to go back in.
I can’t help but think of her as a CF as I’m always working well past my hours and rarely take a lunch break (nature of the job sadly). The one day I make plans for outside of work, she calls me and ‘politely’ essentially says I don’t have a choice and they need me in. My argument is, that had I of travelled back in, I’d of got there for 15:45 so only 15 minutes prior to contracted hours finish time and had I of had plans outside of work, I’d of had to say sorry I can’t work late tonight (literally never happens!).
Overall I didn’t have to go in as someone else stepped in for me (which I thanked them for!) but I can’t help but feel that she’s taking advantage of my usual flexible nature. I know exactly what to expect tomorrow and just know she’s going to sit me down and outline the rules of if you have toil then you must be available to come back into work (fair enough I suppose if necessary - I think) but is it CFery of her to assume I’m just available to work late on Friday night and then challenge it when I say I’m not able to? Surely we’re all entitled to makes plans outside of work otherwise none of us would ever do anything would we?
Who’s being unreasonable here?
In case anyone asks, overtime is not paid, you only get TOIL which you then have to arrange a convenient time with your manager to take this back as time off to which my manager is saying you still have to essentially be on call.