Not to go on this date because of this one comment?

[hatshoeleg]

I have been on one date with him and I wasn't sure if I wanted a second but I agreed anyway.
Yesterday I was just talking to him and said "gonna clean my wardrobe out"
He replied .."you will have to show me on Friday when I'm in your bedroom"
Now I know that's not even a bad comment but as if I would sleep with him on the second date and how presumptuous that I would be sleeping with him.
Aibu to be put off ?

@Kazooboohoo I tend to agree, there’s no need for the OP to be nasty (not suggesting she’s going to be) to the date about his comment - if he was some kind of Brad Pitt, he’d have seen the bedroom after half hour it’s not his fault that his flirting doesn’t fit with his face lmao

My response to that would be, yeah- I enjoy a challenge, good luck seeing someone else’s bedroom on Friday night because you certainly won’t be in mine after that.
Creep!

Dickhead

Disagree that if she fancied him she wouldn't mind him saying that. Fanciable guys never sound this creepy. It's not whether or not you'd end up in bed with them, it's the presumption, and entitlement. Yuk.

I honestly think even if I fancied him that would still put me off.
I just think it's a bit cheeky to assume.

I really hope you've blocked him already. I can't believe you ever agreed to a second date.

...the idea of cutting off anyone like dirt...

Umm, and the comment the man made was treating the OP with respect and consideration?

It's okay to have boundaries, hatshoeleg.

What he thinks is sexy, flirty humour is in fact entitled male twattishness.

And as for the comments all two of them defending him

Nope.

He actually text me today asking if I wanted to drive over he's?
Emmm no
He literally can't be bothered to drive to see me

Just ghost him! Or tell him, 'This isn't really what I'm looking for so I'm going to tap out here. Bye.'

He's just your typical dating site person, wants someone to come over and jump on top of his dick.