My dp mentioned ages ago that he would like to go down to Cornwall when his step-sister is down there on holiday for the week. The idea being that he would go down on his motorbike (more for the ride than anything else). She basically vetoed the idea before it took off by saying that they didnt have room etc. He turned round last week and said that he was now going as she had said he could sleep on the sofa. Im probably being a bit over-sensitive but cant help but think that he should have checked it was ok with me as well as her! The problem is it sounds pathetic when he says he is a 38 year old who shouldnt have to ask permission to do things .. but we have a ds and surely its polite at least to see if I mind! Am I being daft? I dont know why but it seems to have really got my goat!