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DH called me a bitch in front of DC

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Vegena · 13/09/2019 19:09

Has your DH ever called you a bitch in rage in front of DC?

I haven't spoken to him in two days. Thought today he would grovel but all there was is a

I said sorry

Why are you so sad

It is my first week back at work from maternity and I have a cold on top. DH home all day with children yesterday morning having a lovely time. Great.

Long story short I snapped at the state of the house after standing in a pile of food from breakfast and he yelled I was a bitch in front of our two young DDs

It wasn't as he was rushed off his feet as they were all sat on the sofa watching Tv

The thing I hate is I'm not sure if I should be completely hurt he called me it in front of our DDs for them to hear

Or if it is my fault commenting on a messy house (after I spent mon-wed doing my usual cleaning around working and childcare)

OP posts:
Ilikethisone · 14/09/2019 11:55

Also I've given the silent treatment before. It helps me process my feelings and avoids anything said that cant be taken back.

For 2 days, in the expectation of your partner grovelling?

Taking sometime to yourself, telling the other person that's what you need is fine.

Ignoring them until they grovel for days, isnt processing your feelings.

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