Me and my partner have been together two years and I sometimes struggle to understand him. He seems go between being lovely and wants to see me constantly, to then having no interest in me. We did live together, but I moved out six months ago and we have tried to fix things, he's proposed to me and begged me to start trying for a baby, but I think this may be his trap. This weekend coming up he's made no time to see me at all and when I questioned this he basically told me if I didn't like it to fuck off out of his life. It resulted in a big argument and I said I was done. As soon as I tell him I've had enough he does everything to draw me back in. It's a constant push and pull and if I ever question his behaviour towards me he tells me to fuck off and we are done. No arguments really ever get resolved and he has no ability to see things from my point of view. He's like Jekyll and hyde, I never know what i'm going to get, but when he is kind he's the perfect partner, but it doesn't last. I find myself so drawn to him and unable to break it off, but I just know this isn't healthy in the long run. The problem is it me or is it him, sometimes I wonder if the way he acts is my fault and I should just keep silent.