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AIBU to ask what high-paying job DH should retrain for?

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curiosercurioser · 11/09/2019 17:57

Just that really. DH is 43, has spent 15 years working in marketing/public relations/advertising. He wants a change and is happy to retrain, but we need the job to be high-paying, over £40k+ in London. Looking for ideas!

OP posts:
herculepoirot2 · 12/09/2019 06:51

These casual posts saying “top law firm” or “investment banking” are completely ignoring the fact that new graduates in their thousands with first class degrees from top unis, internships coming out of their ears and all the time in the world to throw at the job search still struggle to get those roles. They are incredibly competitive.

What degree/A Levels does your DH have, OP?

PooWillyBumBum · 12/09/2019 06:56

Why the city? DH is on 6 figs working in the midlands aged 28.

Could he look at doing an MBA or similar and look at moving into a more strategic role at another company? I work for a medium sized consultancy outside of London and our marketing director is on about 80-90 and is in her mid 30s with no formal marketing training. Overseas a small team who do the PR, digital marketing etc and creates and owns the marketing plan for the next few years. I work closely with her as I work in the strategy team. There are miniature projects but only as part of a longer term vision and the team remains the same.

We all love our jobs because the company is a great place to work so we all give a shit about it doing well for all our sakes.

PooWillyBumBum · 12/09/2019 06:56

*oversees

Sorry garbled post am typing on iPad whilst eating toast !

BathshebaAndGabriel · 12/09/2019 07:03

Not many “city” companies are hiring at present. In fact, most are making people redundant.

Aethelthryth · 12/09/2019 07:03

Many organisations (banks, law firms etc.) have in-house marketing/business development departments, where he would work in a stable team . Perhaps he could avoid retraining and just look for a change of environment?

stucknoue · 12/09/2019 07:10

There's plenty of high paying work in London but most jobs are not, I'm finding people are advertising late 30's but offering late 20's for positions requiring 10 years experience.

elessar · 12/09/2019 07:32

I work in marketing and earn a little more than your husband outside London, expecting 75k+ in my next role, and I'm in my early 30s.

The easiest thing to do is change the industry or type of role (in-house vs agency or a different set up) to something he's more passionate about.

I'm in-house for a brand and so very little of my work is project based or flitting about.

Bluesheep8 · 12/09/2019 11:34

A couple of posters, including me have asked what YOUR earnings are ok and whether you could make up any shortfall if what he wants to do is lower paid? Apologies if you've answered this and I missed it

Bluesheep8 · 12/09/2019 11:35

I meant to say OP not OK

VapeVamp12 · 12/09/2019 11:52

This thread Hmm

NOT working in London is worth 40k to me!

Pikapikachooo · 12/09/2019 14:01

As a old Londoner I am feeling poor Grin

I think many people have a midlife career crisis . What is clear to me is change is hard
And you have to be very focussed and passionate and clear if you want a change

badlamp · 12/09/2019 19:13

I haven't read through all the replies but he may enjoy a marketing role at a smaller company where he is less project focused and works with the same teams. And depending on what he is marketing it could be something which has a positive feel to it to...

I work in marketing ;)

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