Cheeseandwin5 man haters? Most people have expressed disbelief at an adult expecting their spouse/ partner (especially but not exclusively where the partner has been up doing solo night wakings for a baby) to wake them up multiple times for work, like a sullen and badly organised teenager relying on their parent instead of setting an alarm and taking responsibility for their own day.
How is that man hating? Man-child eye rolling exasperation perhaps.
MRex he's not just being lazy, though the degree of lazyness - not even getting himself up for work even when it's the OP who's been up all night with the baby - is really a pretty long way off the scale in this situation. The op says they are arguing every day about small things, and that he responded to her saying she's fed up of waking him up 20 times in the morning by saying he is sick of the relationship.
There are always some posters who think anything short of massaging the male ego and putting up with any and all shit is man hating. There are always posters eager to fawn over any man who hasn't actually cut all contact with his offspring as "a brilliant dad" and believe women should be grateful for a man who meets the low standard of holding down a job and occasionally seeing his children. It's not man hating to hold father's to a higher standard than that, rather the opposite.
Very few people are saying ltb, most are asking a fairly rhetorical question along the lines of "why does an adult need to be woken up for work rather than behaving like an adult and sorting himself out?" and those few who are saying LTB seem to be the ones who have been in the OP's position!
Sometimes people are so deeply inside a situation that they don't remember/ recognise that it's really abnormal. Unless your partner or spouse has a chronic illness specifically related to chronic fatigue or strong prescription drugs it is highly unusual for a competent adult to rely on their partner/ spouse to wake them up for work every day and this is even more unusual when the one expected to act as an alarm clock with repeating snooze feature is the one doing the night duty with their baby.
He's not just being a bit lazy, and expressing disbelief and pointing out that adults do not rely on someone else to wake them up multiple times for work is not "man hating". 