So I've applied for a job in a FE college and it really interests me and I hope to get an interview and eventually the job. Its a non teaching role.
The application form asked if they could contact the references before selecting for interview to which I said 'no' to my employer and 'yes' to my other reference.
I'm really worried that they might ignore this though - why would they ask for references before interview? Surely this is not fair and could cause all sorts of problems for applicants?
The other reason I am worried is because I have a grievance out against my current employer for bullying, harassment and discrimination. This includes from my line managers and even also from HR but references go to HR so I haven't got a clue what they might say about me.
I have also been off sick with stress brought on by this situation which is another thing I am worried about being disclosed within a reference.
My argument is that it is my current workplace that is making me sick and a new workplace would make me better but obviously if my current employer found out I was looking for another job before I actually got the job offer, then that would cause problems for me too.
What if they ask for a reference before offering me the job and not afterwards?
It's a really unfair situation but I'd really like to get this job and I really want to leave asap.
I know some employers only give a basic reference but even basic references include number of days off sick and its my employer who are making me ill.
I know people who have left my workplace who have gotten more detailed glowing references so there doesn't seem to be a basic reference policy.
I just wanted to rant more than anything. Does anyone have any advice on how to handle this situation?
My family say I shouldn't be applying for anything and get back to work but one of the reasons I am off sick is that my manager wanted to unfairly discipline me so I don't want that to be on my reference either. My union are 100% behind me that the disciplinary action is discriminatory but it still might not stop a bad reference