Hi,
I work full time mainly from home ( sometimes need to be out of the house for meetings etc so not regular times)
My husband doesn’t work and provides no income . He spends all day on his laptop looking into trading deals. ( can’t afford to invest anything though .. says it’s research ) . So I am responsible for all the bills etc . We have an adult disabled daughter who is at college 3 days . I am up at the crack of dawn walking the dog, then get daughter up and ready and start work . He gets up about 8 to see her onto her transport and usually goes back to bed . On the days she’s not at college he gets up about 10 . I have a stressful job and work way overthe hours I should and often catch up at weekends . I also walk the dog in the evening . ( I wanted the dog so that’s the excuse I get about him not doing it ) he uses the fact our daughter is home some days as a reason he can’t get a full time job as she also gets long holidays and is often off sick . I suggested night shift but he wasn’t up for that as says because I work at home he wouldn’t sleep. All he does round the house is cook for himself and daughter ( I do my own as we eat different things ) occasionally do the dishwasher and sometimes the dishwasher and washing . I feel like I do everything .. he doesn’t notice dust, dirty toilets etc .
I am getting really annoyed just typing this . I am permenantely exhausted . He is overweight, drinks everyday and complains of various health problems . We are going on holiday at Christmas ( he just presumes it will will be paid by me and go on my credit card)
Really really peed off and trying to put on a happy face to everyone else is getting me down.