Family Portrait with ex's family

[JellyCatFish]

So my ex mil wants a big family photoshoot and wants me to be on there for dd's sake apparently. Aibu to want to rather stick pins in my eyes or would you grin and bear it?

I just find the whole getting with your ex in laws for a photo shoot a bit twee to be honest. It’s the whole “won’t someone think of the children” attitude. Maybe the child will be happy not to have the photo?

Op, you know your own boundaries. You have separate lives now and a “family” photo can just feel a bit cringey.

won't someone think of the children? seems like a thoroughly decent question to me 🥴