Came down with v&d yesterday evening after day out with DH and DD15 mths. They're both fine.
DH got up with DD in the night and slept in her room. Got up with her his morning and has been looking after her all today as I've not been 100%.
A few hours after being upstairs by myself, I called down and asked him to come up, just for some company. DD jumped on me for a cuddle and I immediately felt like I was about to vomit. Asked DH to take her out and was sick almost while I said it. He complained that I'd only just asked him to come up but went next door.
When I had stopped I asked him to come back. He came back and sat on his laptop. DD sat with me for a bit and then toddled off. Started crying next door. DH made no move to go check on her so I said can you get her/make sure she's ok.
He brought her back in and handed her to me. I could tell she was hungry (when I asked if she'd had lunch earlier he said he'd given her a tangerine). I said she really needs something for lunch.
He got really grumpy and said he'll take her out to get something. There's a bit of food in but nothing to grab, pasta, bread etc.
I asked him why he was being so grumpy with me and he said all I'd done was move him around the house and he'd been looking after DD all night and all today (he has but I've got D&V!)
I'm also 25 weeks pregnant and SAHM for the time being so do all child care as default, although DH is very involved and active. (although not very proactive).
WIBU to ask him to come up to say hello after a few hours of solitude, ask him to take DD out of the room while I vomitted, ask him to check she was alright when she was not in sight and crying and then ask him to feed her lunch?