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Relatives neighbour marking ‘their’ parking space with a bin.

55 replies

CAK111512 · 07/09/2019 18:20

Hi all, my grandparents have lived in their house since the 60’s but parking around the area isn’t the best.

They have neighbours who are quite obviously loaded and selfish. They are a couple who’s children have grown up and moved away but they own 3 large cars. They are on the end house and have their own private drive wide enough for 2 cars plus a garage yet they never use the spaces. They park all 3 cars along the public road and put wheelie bins or cones out when they go out so nobody parks there.

I understand the frustration of not being able to park outside your house but in this case they have a drive and garage but are clearly to lazy to go round the side way to use them and park out the front.

So visiting my grandparents today. I seen the guy pull out of a gap along the road. There were no other spaces so I prepared to park in there then the wife darts out as he left to put a bin there before I get chance.

I felt like politely asking if I could of parked there. The space is outside their house but on a public road so I had every right to do so but didn’t want to cause a fuss so ended up parking quite a distance away.

Aibu to think that people marking out gaps on a public road is wrong?? Particularly because they have three cars and also room for 2/3 cars around the side of their house in which the spaces are always empty.

I was tempted to park in their empty drive but decided not to.

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athenagoddessofwar · 07/09/2019 18:31

I'd just move the bin. Unless it's clearly marked as their space, or they've got limited mobility, they can beat it. After the first few times it was moved, if they kept putting it back, their bin would be 'disappearing'. Cheeky shits

Disfordarkchocolate · 07/09/2019 18:33

Move the bin.

Zeusthemoose · 07/09/2019 18:34

Move the bin and park there. If they have a problem politely remind them they have a drive. They sound awful

CAK111512 · 07/09/2019 18:34

it’s definitely not their space. It’s a public road outside houses. I am pretty certain they don’t have mobility issues but obviously I couldn’t be sure. They own 3 cars all of which park along the road rather than the drive way. Surely they could park 1 or 2 of their cars on the drive or garage and leave the one they use most out front just to be considerate of other people? They are huge cars too! Clearly loaded 😭

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TidyDancer · 07/09/2019 18:35

If they keep doing it the council where I am would take the bins away.

GreenTulips · 07/09/2019 18:37

I would’ve moved the bin

BrightYellowDaffodil · 07/09/2019 18:38

People who do this are arseholes. If they carry on, I’d be submitting a complaint to the council.

My neighbour did this for a while because apparently she ‘needs’ ( Hmm ) to park parallel with he front door because she has children. Not one car space away, not only the other side of the (quiet residential) road, dead level with her front door. I presume someone had a word because she stopped doing it.

But it’s not as good as the people over the way who spray painted their own disabled bay outside their house. The council came and scrubbed it off.

Name739017 · 07/09/2019 18:38

My neighbour did this with cones, although we are terraced and she doesn’t have a drive, no one on the road does. So I moved the cones and parked there. She’s not done it since.

Windydaysuponus · 07/09/2019 18:40

Next time get your passenger to run out and move the bin.
Cfers!!

PegasusReturns · 07/09/2019 18:40

Just move the bin Confused

MadameButterface · 07/09/2019 18:41

Move the bin, it’s a public road

Them being loaded or not or owning three cars or 27 cars has nothing to do with it

If they keep doing it grass them up to the council - where i live people have been issued notices to stop leaving their bins out in the street as it blocks the pavement and everyone is up in arms on the local fb ‘moan here about dogshit etc’ group

ultrablue · 07/09/2019 18:43

I'd" presume" somebody deliberately moved their bin into the road and "Helpfully" move it onto the pavement and park my car in the space...

Yellowshirt · 07/09/2019 18:44

I could see there being an argument with that women then as I'd move the bin and park there every single time I was visiting

BeBraveAndBeKind · 07/09/2019 18:45

It's a breach of the Highway Code too. I used to live on a street with people that did this and I reported them to the community police officer. My MIL did move the bins and park there once and got a very abusive note on her car. They were absolutely the type to key your car too.

SarahAndQuack · 07/09/2019 18:52

YY, like ultrablue I'd be doing a lot of 'helpful' putting their bin away for them.

hazell42 · 07/09/2019 18:52

My old neihhbour used to put bollards outside his house. He didn't even have a car.
He didnt like people obstructing 'his' view
Nuts

SunshineCake · 07/09/2019 18:56

We have a new opposite neighbour who parks his huge work van on the road outside my house, sometimes parallel to my drive which makes it tricky to reverse off my drive. There is a large green between the road and his house, where he has a double garage and double drive HmmAngry. Why are some people so selfish and thoughtless.

birdlawyer · 07/09/2019 18:57

Cancel the cheque!

I mean...Move the bin

DdraigGoch · 07/09/2019 18:58

Move the bin. Go on, you know you want to...

BlueLadybird · 07/09/2019 19:02

The fact they are ‘loaded’ is irrelevant but I agree, move the bin.

AlwaysCheddar · 07/09/2019 19:03

Move the bin!!

DontTouchTheMoustache · 07/09/2019 19:03

Hide the bin

pigsDOfly · 07/09/2019 19:04

Why on earth would you not move the bin and park there?

And why would you feel you need to 'politely' ask then if you may park there.

Have they paid a subscription to own part of the public highway? No, of course they haven't.

Next time, move the bin and park there.

CAK111512 · 07/09/2019 19:10

Thanks all. I did want to move the bin but I didn’t want to cause any fuss for my elderly grandparents with their neighbours!

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ThumbWitchesAbroad · 07/09/2019 19:17

Next time move the bin.
It's not their road.
Their driveway is their driveway, they have that space available to them, you don't - so move their bin onto their driveway and park.

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