To be disappointed-What can I do now if anything

[ChickenIce]

Moved ds at Xmas to a new school few different reasons. One reason was due to a boy I’ll call him Daniel. Daniel was very much leader of the boys and the centre of various incidents. My ds steered clear but it did affect things in playground- Daniel was accused of racism, bullying various nasty things and there was constant issues in the playground.
Ds is now in a lovely school settled so well lots of nice friends no issues of bullying etc.
Just been msg by Daniels mum who is moving house and want him to come to ds school?!
So disappointed I know he probably won’t come as cause quite as much trouble but his mum would obviously want my ds to buddy up with him and I think it would affect the vibe of their year group :(

Tell the school now!!

I would message her and say that your sorry she must have the wrong end of the stick and your sons aren’t friends . Leave it like that , your poor son and I hope the lad doesn’t come to the same school .

Block her. For all she knows you have a new phone.....

Block her and don't respond.

Don't respond and block her number. If she tries to add you on social media, ignore any requests. Fuck that! The last thing you need now is Daniel turning up at Ds school claiming to be friends. If he does turn up make sure your Ds knows he can steer clear of him.

Please please please tell the school!! You must have been through a really testing time for your son to have been bullied so badly that you moved schools. Take up your cudgels again & don’t be passive. If you lay it all out for the school you might find that Daniel doesn’t appear. If you do nothing then he well might.

And as for the mum, either block her or be blunt. You moved to get away from Daniel’s bullying!

Did you talk to the school OP?