AIBU to be annoyed with DP?

[YorkshireLass321]

I posted on a previous thread saying how DPs parents are coming over from abroad and him and DS are going to meet them at his brothers house down south but I’ve decided to stay at home for various reasons.
DP’s parents don’t fly in until tomorrow but DP and DS went yesterday, DP said to get some time with his brother. Fair enough.
Today I’ve found out that DP is going to a football match an hour from where his brother is and leaving DS (2) with his brother for the day who’s going to take him out. It’s not that I don’t trust his brother, but he doesn’t really know him and has only met him 2-3 times before. It’s the fact DP didn’t mention this until today when he’s there and on his way.
AIBU to be annoyed?

It depends really. How is your ds normally when he’s left with someone? If it was me I’d be pissed off tbh. My ds is 2 and he’s be distraught if his dad left him with his uncle for a few hours (he’s also only met his uncle a couple times). I would have appreciated him mentioning it at least if I were you

He’s only ever been left with my parents and DPs parents once or twice when he was very little. He’s shy around people he doesn’t know.
I’m glad it’s not just me that would be annoyed. It’s the fact nothing was mentioned until he’s there and there’s literally nothing I can do.

I would be really annoyed. Does the uncle have any experience watching children? Two year olds are a handful.

Well if DS was getting on ok with his uncle yesterday and uncle is generally sensible it should be fine. It wont be a whole day so if they have a couple of hours in the park or soft play that will take up most of it anyway.