Am I allowed to? We aren't currently speaking but the last 3 letters addressed to him have had cards in them and I'm worried.
He has a history of debt problems, running up CCs with nothing to show for it and I know he is desperate to make a big purchase but I told him we needed to sit down and discuss finances first, he didn't like that and stormed off and now we are fighting about other things. We've practically split but I'm concerned for the joint finances
Am I allowed to check this?