I'm getting married (we are going away on our own) and having a reception when we get back. I'm agonising over inviting someone who I used to be really good friends with but we've become distant (they moved away and I heard from them less and less, they would come back home for visits and not tell me, we had arranged a night out and I never heard from them then they said they had no money but later they put posts from a night out on socal media - you get the gist). The problem is, is that my partner is friends with the mum and will also be getting an invite so I would feel bad for not inviting said person however i don't feel like we are friends anymore. I'm so bad at taking my own advice and because I've been back and forth for so long if I should invite, this is telling me that I shouldn't. But I don't want to risk upsetting the mum as we are friendly. I'm kinda thinking ill just invite said person and it's their choice to turn up?