To think this isn’t a friendship?

[RoryGlory]

I’m friends with one of my colleagues. They are genuinely one of the most sensitive people I have ever met in my life, to the point where I never know where I stand.

Sometimes they are my best friend and then other times I walk in about yo say good morning and they turn their head away

They will then also sit on their own at lunch rather than with me and our other friend. But they will never approach me and say what the reason for the fall out is.

Aibu to think no friendship is worth constantly having to walk on eggshells?

Maybe they are massively introverted and you are taking their behaviour too personally?

I suspect it’s nothing you’ve done at all, and that they are just someone who has mood swings.

I would also add that you shouldn’t be offended if someone doesn’t want to sit with you at lunch every day. It’s work, not school - your friend is an adult and probably likes a peaceful hour to herself now and again without having to chat. I doubt it’s personal.

your friend is an adult and probably likes a peaceful hour to herself now and again without having to chat. I doubt it’s personal.

Definitely not true. He’s not like that in the slightest,