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Is he awkward or what’s going on here?

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Fishingforscales · 30/08/2019 22:13

Long story short . Good mate . Lots of flirting, double entendres , comments and positive vibes . I am
Separated , him in new relationship of a year and one day he messages me to say he has to stop his behaviour . I agree based on his story . Didn’t know it was serious with his girlfriend . Then I realise it is ... We see one another again , a couple of months later .. he is awkward, won’t make eye contact and is diverting his attention to other friends in our group . Yet he still tries to engage me when we are on our own own ..starts messaging me personally outside of our group. I ignore. He keeps trying . What’s going on here please tell me?? Thanks

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SmellbowSpaceBowl · 30/08/2019 23:55

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Fishingforscaless · 30/08/2019 23:56

Wow! the AIBU responders are really on form tonight . You have no idea what people are going through in their lives so as they say , be kind . You are all so way so far away from the truth

Fishingforscaless · 30/08/2019 23:58

Thanks @Bluebell

GetOffTheTableMabel · 31/08/2019 00:06

I’m sorry that you don’t like the responses you’re getting but, with the small amount of detail that you have posted, I don’t see what else people can say. There may be other circumstances that mean this is somehow a serious problem but the outline we have just seems a little childish. I have these discussions with my teenage daughters about school boys.
Perhaps this man is immature?

Fishingforscaless · 31/08/2019 00:21

Perhaps he is but gosh I feel so hurt. I changed my username for very valid reasons once. I feel Attacked . Posters
Talking about alcohol amd I dont touch a drop of alcohol for very valid Reasons . I’m
Beginning to think that it is me and the way I post my problems. I am honest and candid and worry . I was hurt and I must have attracted the dead of night trolls who either have nothing else to do rather than examine my username . I am on education, special needs , feminism and a whole host of others threads ..reading , commenting and posting and none of these are interrelated . I am terribly hurt by it all ..I was Simply asking. Question because my head was muddled

bluebell34567 · 31/08/2019 00:23

i think you need to ignore some of the posts.

Fishingforscaless · 31/08/2019 00:27

Yes I do and thanks . I was not prepared for the backlash or projection . Thanks . Going to go to bed now . Goodnight

bluebell34567 · 31/08/2019 00:29

good night.

RavenLG · 31/08/2019 00:38

This was a wile ride

RavenLG · 31/08/2019 00:39

*wild ffs

SmellbowSpaceBowl · 31/08/2019 12:19

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Bouffalant · 31/08/2019 12:55

Your space bar is broken.

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