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WIBU not to clean it?

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Excited0803 · 29/08/2019 09:27

I recently sold a kids garden sprinkler mat, 4 months old and works fine but not quite what we wanted so we'll get something else. I advertised it and someone wanted it straight away so I fetched it in from the garden (we were getting one last use out of it so the last of the water would squidge out) and put it in a bag, but then she didn't show up. A couple of days later someone else said they wanted it and agreed to pay 1/3 of the retail price. The woman arrived an hour early and woke DS with the doorbell despite having a different time and being asked to knock, so I was a bit pissed off but anyway the upshot is that DH answered the door not me, so I didn't actually meet her.

She then messaged me to say "it's dirty". I know for sure that the top was clean because I folded it carefully to keep the top clean and explained to her that it was just a little mud on the base, that she could wash it off. I also advised her that as soon as she turns it on the water will make the base muddy from sitting on the grass, so she might not want to bother. She didn't reply but gave me a bad review on marketplace, which I haven't had before. While it would of course be nicer for her to get something clean and I would have rinsed it if the previous buyer hadn't been in a hurry, I don't see that it's such a terrible thing when it's secondhand and cheap. She also didn't ask to bring it back and she didn't say the mud didn't wash off (it's just thin streaks of mud), so is it really fair to leave me a bad review? I've only had positive reviews before, unless someone lets you down or the thing is broken it seems like a nasty thing to do.

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PooWillyBumBum · 29/08/2019 09:29

I wouldn't be bothered by mud on the bottom, but some people are never pleased. Just forget about it and enjoy the cash!

tobedtoMNandfart · 29/08/2019 09:30

This is why I just don't bother with this shit anymore. YANBU.

RozHuntleysStump · 29/08/2019 09:33

I hate selling things now. The thing is you need to vet the buyer as much as sellers now. I will sell to people on forums or groups that I'm a part of if I can see a bit of background. I have a brand new unopened ipad that I have been wanting to sell for ages but I daren't as I just know I'll somehow be scammed and lose out.

Excited0803 · 29/08/2019 09:42

I'd like to ignore it. The thing is though that now anyone "vetting" me sees a bad review as well as the good ones. Or I have to hide it which looks suspicious. So I just look crap because she can't handle mud on a sprinkler.

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Sonders · 29/08/2019 10:57

If you can reply, just say the secondhand item was priced to reflect the level of use, and sorry that they didn't read the description or check that they were happy with the mat prior to taking it home and using it. Everyone knows that some people will never be happy, and sensible people won't judge you based on one review

Excited0803 · 29/08/2019 11:01

I can only send a message directly to her. As she didn't reply to my last message I don't know the etiquette behind saying anything else. I feel more like saying that giving a bad review was unfair, but she might think that's harassing her.

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