Firstly: to the competitively tired brigade, I don’t care if you have quintuplets who didn’t sleep through till they went to uni.
Since we’ve been together he’s had some shit with his parents marriage breaking down and the threat of redundancy at work and has put on a lot of weight and is now about a stone overweight I genuinely don’t mind this but a side effect is he now snores.
I’ve had another uncomfortable night on the sofa as at 1am he was snoring loudly enough to wake the dead.
It’s starting to breed a bit of resentment and I no longer enjoy spending the night with him as I know that I won’t be sleeping well that night. He always says he’d go in the sofa if I just wake him, but he is very hard to wake.
He’s also been saying for months he’ll look into various things to assist it, I’m not sure if any work, but he hasn’t at all and I’m feeling incredibly fed up.