@Monty27
Perhaps I didn't clearly communicate my tone in my previous post.
'Stupid tax' was meant in a light, casual sense - an indicator of where the burden for a particular behaviour/incident should lie in my estimation. I did not mean for it to offend or disparage.
E.g.
If I spend waste effort, ingredients and hours of my time making a fish curry for my partner, knowing he absolutely, viscerally hates fish, then when those resources go to waste, that is absolutely my stupid tax.
It is not on him to choke it down and feel nauseated for hours after to make me feel better about knowingly investing my effort in something when I had no reasonable expectation whatsoever that he would eat and/or enjoy it.
...You are well within your rights to invest your time, effort and ingredients into cooking discoloured 4-day-expired mince (of all things).
...You are well within your rights to assume the risk of eating it for yourself.
You had no right whatsoever to be bothered/annoyed/offended/whatever that someone refused to eat discoloured 4-day-expired mince just because you invested effort and resources into preparing it, knowing it was well past the expiry.
No-one is obliged to significantly risk their health, well-being and even life so that you don't have to feel like your effort and resources were wasted.
It is beyond unreasonable that you think they should.