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Anger & Resentment at so called friend

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Woodyden · 27/08/2019 22:09

I have been wronged by someone I regarded as a good friend and now I am struggling to deal with my feelings.

I feel upset, disappointed and angry - not just because of what she has done but because I have lost a friend who I was very fond of. I have realised she is a narcissist and only thinks about herself and cannot see the implication her actions have on the people around her.

At the minute it seems to be the only thing I think about as I am so angry - btw it has been pointed out to her what she has done but no apology has been forthcoming!

Any advice/techniques on how to get it out of my head and move on would be appreciated :)

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Cheeserton · 27/08/2019 22:12

What did she do though?

Templetonstunafish · 27/08/2019 22:28

YABVVVU to post something so cryptic.

Elieza · 27/08/2019 22:29

There’s two sides to every story. Sometimes you need to talk. She may be fully guilty as charged. Or you may not be 100% innocent? We don’t know the full story. What are others who know you and the situation saying? If she’s bang out of order the only way to move on is to not care. That won’t happen instantly. Keep busy and think about other things. Eventually you won’t think about her any more. Takes at least a year In my experience. And you always have a little sad place in your heart that wishes it hadn’t happened.

Templetonstunafish · 27/08/2019 22:29

Tell us about the horrible no good awful thing so we can advise you properly.

And judge your friend.

ghostedgirl · 28/08/2019 00:19

What @Templetonstunafish said.

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