To not think we’re being harsh?

[RoryGlory]

Recently a friend set me up with her boyfriends best friend and it’s going good, we have also done lots of double dates too.

We do have a third mutual friend and they have started to feel left out and have become distant.

We never thought to invite them though

Have you thought about how you would feel in their shoes?

I understand why they wouldn't be invited on double dates, but at the same time it would be difficult for the third friend to see you guys having plans together frequently and them being left out

Wow you are nice friend! Never thought to invite them! Let’s hope the tables are never turned hey, with them double dating, meeting up and you being left out.

You don’t have to invite them all the time, but sometimes would be nice.

You are horrible to your friend

Is this a reverse? Surely nobody would be so spectacularly unaware that they'd hurt their friend by leaving her out all the time?

And?

Is there more to the story?