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WIBU about the neighbours noise?

6 replies

MonicaGB · 26/08/2019 00:34

There has been a loud party going on all evening with incredibly loud shouty singing. At one point it was like they were in the room with me shouting songs in an out of tune way. I had to shut all the windows but could still hear it, expect then I was shut in a hot room with slightly less annoying singing.

Anyway, at midnight at knocked on the door and asked them when it was finishing and all they did was sing louder. So I knocked on the door again and asked them again when it was finishing as it was preventing me from sleeping. They did finally shut of the music and I can now go to bed. At no point did I go round angrily, I just said it was difficult to sleep with the noise and were they planning to stop it soon.

I'm now a little worried that these people are going to target me with stuff, especially as I live on my own. They seem like reasonable people but I'm really worried that I've now put myself in the firing line for harassment.

Would it be unreasonable to speak to them tomorrow and say thank you for shutting the fuck up?

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JoxerGoesToStuttgart · 26/08/2019 00:37

They’re probably all drunk and will forget that you even came round or mightn’t know which neighbour it was that came.

Don’t worry. Go to sleep. If you get any trouble then call the police.

MonicaGB · 26/08/2019 00:40

The neighbour didn't seem that drunk and they definitely know where I live. I'm feeling a bit stressed out now and slightly sick. The neighbour was "what's the problem?". When it was past midnight and the music was really loud. Doesn't anyone have any consideration anymore?

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EileenAlanna · 26/08/2019 00:57

If any of them give you grief get in first with stony faced "Yeah, well, I know where you live". If you're in the Midlands give me a shout if you need backup. Can provide own balaclava.

cheeseislife8 · 26/08/2019 01:00

Nah, in the cold light of day they'll realise exactly what the problem was, IF they remember. Don't worry about it! If they do start creating, just call the police

JoxerGoesToStuttgart · 26/08/2019 01:01

My neighbour was partying tonight too. He does it all the time. Gets high and blasts this shit thumpy music through the wall then fights with all his guests, doors slamming, stuff being hit, it spills out into the garden with them all shouting at each other. I’m too scared to approach him about it though.

MonicaGB · 26/08/2019 01:07

I'm pretty unwell, so not being able to sleep (and still can't) will mean I look like shit tomorrow, so hopefully they will feel guilty. But there was definitely no apology for having it so loud for so long.

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