Is this passive aggressive or am I being sensitive?

[Nameisthegame]

Me and ex still live together currently with ds 2. He’s getting the bath ready for him I use the wee and forget to flush (grim I know but genuine accident definitely not usual) he comes back to check on the bath as I wash my hands and says “why would we want to smell the scent of your piss wafting through the air during our bath?”

I said “I’m sorry it was a accident and forgot Because I was putting all the towels, nappies back on the toilet lid and it just slipped my mind. But no need to be passive aggressive about it.”

Him “I’m not being passive aggressive it’s a joke”

YABU it’s a joke
Yanbu he is being passive aggressive

I use the loo for a wee...sorry I’m dyslexic

It’s not even passive aggressive. It’s just plain rude/aggressive

I would be annoyed that he used that language in front of your two year old, but don't think it was that bad aside from that.

He’s been saying stuff like this often to ds ohhh naughty mummy made a mess. Etc

Men love winding women up like this. It would’ve annoyed me too OP. Just ignore him-they can be so immature

It sounds like a joke to me and certainly nothing I could be bothered to get cross about but given that he’s your ex, it probably doesn’t matter that much either why. My expectations of a relationship with someone I’d split up with would be pretty low, I think.

*way, not why!

errgh forget to namechange 😒 he looked and found one of my posts from ages ago and we still argue about it...really need to save and move out

Who cares? Just shrug it off...it's not worth a second thought

I just feel so low, I’ve got a lot to sort out before I start my job in sept and ds is suffering from really bad separation anxiety , ex is meant to look after him all weekend bar naps and bed but ds refuses to be away from me. Ds just starts howling it’s horrible. Ex has been away working for two months so it’s hard for ds.

If he's looking through your posts then that's low.

He searched the search bar for things we were going through and location until he found similar one, I don’t know why I felt a bit violated even though anyone can read it really.

Just flush the loo, and it won't happen.