Would you be a bit annoyed?

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My close friend has got a new boyfriend for the past couple of months. She is very paranoid about him cheating on her etc. She suggested that me and her haven't seen eachother in a while and so we should go for drinks and a catch up tonight. Conveniently shes slipped in now that her boyfriend is out tonight and we might as well go to the same place as them but sit a bit further away. Its obvious she isn't trusting him on the night out and wants an excuse to monitor his behaviour rather than having a catch up with me.

Am I right to be a bit annoyed?

I'd be more than a bit annoyed. I'd be inclined to tell her that I'm not her stakeout partner in a cut-price episode of 'Love Rat Detectives', and she can stalk her boyfriend herself if she thinks he's boffing someone else.

Yes you’re right to be annoyed. Tell her that you do not want to go and spy on her boyfriend with her. If she won’t go somewhere else don’t go. You deserve better than to be dragged into this nonsense

My friend used to do this. Spent the whole night spying on him or talking about him. A very boring night out!

Yep...no I'd not be going there. Suggest another venue or don't go.