Bit of an odd one. Today I went into my message requests on Facebook and realised I had messages I’ve never seen or replied to. Some were from parents of my kids friends, some random and another from a guy asking if I knew him as I had added him.
Now, I have accidentally added people as friends on Facebook before so I replied to say sorry if I did it would have been an accident.
He replied saying it’s okay, asking where I live. I didn’t want to be rude so replied to say where I live (like the county, not the town just in case he’s a stalker). He started chatting where he lived, what he was up to which was odd and I just tried to cut off the conversation by using the thumbs up hoping he wouldn’t reply.
Then he keeps messaging me saying I seem nice, etc and about the weather.
I said I couldn’t stop to chat as was going to work (that was a lie, im a SAHM right now) and my partner would start wondering why I have random
Messages from men on my phone!!
Yet he didn’t get the hint. I don’t like upsetting people. Then he asked for my number. I didn’t reply and ignored it but he kept messaging. I replied to say I’m not sure what your intentions are but I don’t give out my number. I’m in a faithful relationship of 7 years.
So I ended up blocking him. I had mentioned I had a partner twice. I hardly made conversation at first and my profile is somewhat public. There’s a pic of me and partner as my profile pic. My relationship status is public I think..
So would a man (or a woman) give out their number to a random stranger clearly in a relationship?
If I was single I couldn’t do it. I’ve never been interested in a man that is clearly taken!!
Now I have some sense of guilt that I’ve done something wrong which I haven’t. I thought I had accidentally added the guy and he asking me who I was so I replied. Maybe I didn’t accidwntally add him in the first place??