I presume you've heard of "reasonable adjustments"?
So if a child can't follow the exact regime but, with help, can behave well enough that they aren't disrupting their own or anyone else's education, they might well benefit from the school.
But I doubt their parents would risk it.
Well, of course I have heard of reasonable adjustments. And yes, of course if a child can get on well in an environment that suits the majority of other children this well, without interfering with their efficient education, I 100% support that.
But I think you may be drawing an attractive curtain over what what people call “reasonable” actually means sometimes. I have seen posters on here insist that a child with SEN cannot be disciplined for disruption, “because it is a direct result of their disability,” for example. And nor can they help the disruption, again, because it is due to their disability. So if that is true, what “adjustments” are going to protect the other children from that disruption?
I am not suggesting in any way that those children don’t or shouldn’t have rights. But the other children have rights too. How do we balance them?