I have a lovely bf. We have been together about a year and previous to that I was single about 3 years. It's really nice that he comes over (alot) and we enjoy time together. But apart from with the kids I don't watch TV, ever. I don't find it relaxing or interesting, or I find box sets too much and can't stop watching , so again not relaxing. Bf quite rightly likes to relax with the TV on. All . The. Time.
He is currently sitting downstairs loving a chef programme which I am really happy he is relaxing, fine I don't want to watch it so I'm upstairs on my phone / reading my book. The literal sound of the TV which is completely audible from my bedroom I have realised I can't stand. Nor can I stand it on first thing in the morning and I absolutely can't stand football focus or match of the day because I find the sound so disruptive and messes with my peace of mind. He is totally reasonable and a complete sweetheart and I've just shut both doors and he's turned it down a bit and no dramas.
But what is wrong with me ?? Why can't I either just enjoy tv or not mind the background noise it creates?
I know it's basically a non issue but as the relationship progresses and we spend more time together I just don't think I can bear it. Any thoughts welcomed on how to approach this without being controlling or selfish, but at the same time preserving my sanity! Of course ear phones are an option but it seems a bit mean to make him wear them when watching telly I'm not interested in, which is essentially all TV.