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To think the school holidays should just be August ?

412 replies

yellowbeard · 20/08/2019 16:15

It's too long. I think a break in routine does kids good, but it's too much all at once. I think in Italy August is considered Holiday month ( not sure about the school holiday length ) but I know a lot of businesses close down for August there. Aibu ?

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shithappens123 · 21/08/2019 09:21

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe - I teach A level and thank goodness I don’t teach primary or lower school as I don’t have to deal with lazy entitled parents like you.

alittleprivacy · 21/08/2019 09:26

I’m a teacher in S Orleans and want to move to Ireland, I love the holidays love the no routine spending long Summer days and nights with my children, June is a rubbish month at school anyway, everyone’s tired and fed up, there’s loads going on the weathers too nice, I think we should have the whole of June, July and half of August off 10 weeks would be lovely, your only a child once enjoy childhood.

Our primary school kids only get July and August off. It just seems so insane to me that the little kids have to go to school for June while the teenagers are off. I know it's because there are exams held in the school in June, so it's easier for the non-exam years to be off. But I think primary school kids need June off as much if not more than the older kids.

It was so obvious all through June that the kids at school were done. Our school is a forest school, so it's nearly all outdoor learning through play and even at that, their need for a long, long break was palpable. It just felt so fucking arbitrary to be dragging them into school all month for no reason other than to match the 183 days laid down by the Department of Education. The only people who were benefitting from that set up were the working parents who relied on school as childcare. And as much as I sympathise with the need to work and the expense of childcare during school holidays, that should not be coming ahead of the needs of the children to actually have real and serious periods of down time.

cjt110 · 21/08/2019 09:28

My nephew's summer break is 13 weeks. Just reduced to 11. Think yourself fortunate it's only 6 weeks here.

picklejimmy · 21/08/2019 09:28

Teenagers don't get June off? Year 11s leave after their exams. Everyone else is still in school.

perplexedagain · 21/08/2019 09:28

The long holidays are a pain. DC end up going to holiday club as we simply do not have the annual leave to take all the time off and no family nearby. Personally I would prefer a move to shorter terms / more frequent breaks - much easier to manage and better for learning. I would definitely prefer longer at Easter / October to enable us to travel further afield - e.g. florida etc when it is not boiling hot over the summer.

cjt110 · 21/08/2019 09:29

And WRT to the costs... save up? We put £100 a month aside, which we had previously paid in nursery fees, towards the summer holidays to be used for childcare, days out, etc.

Mummadeeze · 21/08/2019 09:29

I wish they were shorter so that I had to pay for less childcare in the Summer. It is crippling trying to pay for 4 weeks worth of holiday camps. Two weeks with me and two weeks in childcare would be perfect in my mind.

JacquesHammer · 21/08/2019 09:30

The thing is for every person who wants a shorter holiday, there are others who would find it harder.

Genuinely though, the fact that kids get around 6 weeks holiday in summer surely should be factored in to plans? I fully appreciate how difficult it can be when circumstances change, but IME the people I see complaining about how long holidays are, have none of those issues to face.

alittleprivacy · 21/08/2019 09:32

Teenagers don't get June off? Year 11s leave after their exams. Everyone else is still in school.
I was quoting a post about Irish kids having June off and pointing out that while Irish teenagers (in non exam years) have June off, the primary school kids don't.

HelpIcantfindaname · 21/08/2019 09:33

I'd like an extra week at Christmas or May half term, but love the 6 weeks in summer, so would be reluctant to give any up.
I am a teacher...I'm in school some of week 1 sorting stuff...it takes till at least the end of week 2 to destress about school stuff, & at the end of week 4 I started thinking lots about next term....like when I'm trying to sleep at night!
I will be in school one day at the end of Week 6 too.
I think staff & kids need a long summer break.
Also, I love all the time off with DD10 & my grandchildren.
I do wish my money went further in the 6 weeks hols...its not a cheap time.

Daffodilsdaisy · 21/08/2019 09:35

I think it's all fine although I work so I don't get enough holiday to cover it and I certainly can't afford activities for their age group. If I didn't work and had money to cover lovely days out it wouldn't be long enough.

perplexedagain · 21/08/2019 09:36

We have between 6.5- 7.5 weeks over summer (varies year on year). It is too much. I would prefer 1 extra week at Easter and October. And I hate the Feb half-term break - it is always too soon. Kids have only just got back into a good routine before they are off again!

Fresta · 21/08/2019 09:36

Anyone who can't occupy their kids for six weeks needs to take a look at themselves. We are never bored- it's so nice to just have a flexible life-style without the routine of school. To be be able to spend time in the garden, visit the local park, go on bike rides, visit friends and family, stay up late, sleep in in the mornings, have meals when we choose, do arts and crafts, visit museums, go to the cinema, bake, read, play board games, go for a long walk, etc.

If you go on holiday abroad for two weeks then a four week holiday from school is no where near enough time off to really relax. The first couple of days off would be spent packing and sorting out for the holiday, then two weeks away, then when you come back it takes a few days to get back into life with all the jet lag, unpacking, washing and ironing all your clothes, restocking the fridge, etc. That only leaves about a week for other things and half of that would be spent sorting new school uniform, bags pencil cases etc., and then trying to get the kids back into a good sleep pattern ready for school. Six weeks too long? Never! I would like eight!

edgeofheaven · 21/08/2019 09:37

I'm assuming people who want extra weeks at Christmas and Easter have a parent who is home or they are teachers themselves.

In mine and DH's jobs business doesn't take several weeks off at those times. Summer slows down because most children in the Northern Hemisphere are off at some point in July and August. Not so in March/April.

Skinnychip · 21/08/2019 09:37

And WRT to the costs... save up? We put £100 a month aside,

If i had 100/month to spare, I'd happily save it but sadly i don't

picklejimmy · 21/08/2019 09:37

alittleprivacy my apologies I didn't see the Irish bit. Need to wear my glasses when read more.

Mammyloveswine · 21/08/2019 09:40

As a teacher... YABU Wink although I wouldn't mind 4 weeks and then 2 weeks at October and feb half terms!

picklejimmy · 21/08/2019 09:40

manmyloveswine agreed. That would be my ideal I think.

perplexedagain · 21/08/2019 09:43

EdgeofHeaven - no I'm not a teacher or SAHM. And summer is not a slow down time for many of us I'm afraid. .

My rationale is that it is much easier to manage 3 weeks childcare than 7 - bit of me, bit of DP time, public hols over Easter /Xmas taken care of, if were longer go actually take DC to stay with grandparents for a few days, holiday clubs for a few days (not weeks which makes DC cross)

thegrumpallo · 21/08/2019 09:45

like the idea of a remembrance bank holiday.... how does that happen?

moccaicecream · 21/08/2019 09:56

Anyone who can't occupy their kids for six weeks needs to take a look at themselves. We are never bored- it's so nice to just have a flexible life-style without the routine of school. To be be able to spend time in the garden, visit the local park, go on bike rides, visit friends and family, stay up late, sleep in in the mornings, have meals when we choose, do arts and crafts, visit museums, go to the cinema, bake, read, play board games, go for a long walk, etc.

you do realise that the majority of parents need to work? School hols means just as much rushing around (taking children to holiday clubs in order to work) plus the huge financial hit of school holiday childcare which leaves no money for anything else.

it all well telling how lovely it is to spend nice & relaxing days in the park of you don't have get out every day to make sure you can put food on the table.

EssentialHummus · 21/08/2019 10:01

Anyone who can't occupy their kids for six weeks needs to take a look at themselves.

Yeah, they may take a look at themselves and see that they need to juggle a FT role with expensive childcare and tired kids. I SAH but I see what friends go through. And comments like that^ are just ill-informed.

Sleepyblueocean · 21/08/2019 10:02

"Anyone who can't occupy their kids for six weeks needs to take a look at themselves."

Are you so lacking in empathy that you are unable to see that everyone doesn't have the options that you have?

angell84 · 21/08/2019 10:02

Why do the UK only have six weeks?
It is three months in most other countries

Missillusioned · 21/08/2019 10:03

One thing that summer holidays are used for is building and repair works at schools. The longer summer break allows work to be carried out that would be unsafe with children in school.

If we had shorter breaks, schools might need to be closed at random, inconvenient times for repairs and maintenance.

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