We're both not sleeping well because our little one wakes up at least 3 times a night. Dad was annoyed the baby woke up early and voiced his frustration so I took the baby downstairs. An hour and a half later he comes down. I made myself and baby some breakfast, fully expecting him to do his usual and go and smoke outside. After we finish breakfast he helps to clear table and makes a comment about the mess. I could tell he was still in a mood so just ignored him. Then he decided to tell me i've been selfish for not asking him if he wants breakfast and it's just polite to ask and all I care about is myself and our child 🙄. I remind him he never wakes up hungry and he gets annoyed telling me that on the odd occasion he does eat straightaway and 'I should have had the decency to ask' and i haven't even apologised blah blah blah. I go back to ignoring him. He makes the baby's milk and then the baby sleeps. At this point he's gone outside for a smoke and so I message him to let him know baby is asleep and I will go and lie down with baby. Fast forward a few hours and he is moaning that I'm in a strop with him despite me being down for an hour and a half! Apparently I shouldn't be any more tired than him, despite me predominantly being the one who does the night shift wake ups and still doing my share of early morning wake ups and still bleeding from a miscarriage I had less than a week ago. When I reminded him that I was equally, if not more exhausted than him, he in no uncertain terms told me he got that I was in pain but that the miscarriage doesn't affect my fatigue. Literally fuming so I've walked out the room.