So about a month ago I got a wedding invitation from my oldest friend's daughter. She was my bridesmaid at my wedding and as a family I've always thought we were close (buying each others kids xmas presents etc). There was a bit of drama at my wedding cos I didnt invite her boyfriend at the time (although to be fair I didnt know he existed and 5 months later she was pregnant by another bloke so make of that what you will). He came anyway which was a bit of a cheek but I just accepted it. However I've now received an invitation to her wedding which is just for me. My husband and daughter (both of whom she knows) have not been included. So what do I do? I've had texts from her bridesmaid about the hen do so I'm guessing she wants me there - it just feels incredibly insulting that she hasn't invited my husband at least. It's out of town so would be a trek but even worse on my own. I get people try to save money on weddings but seriously? Genuinely not sure if i should refuse or just go to the wedding then ditch the reception. Some other girls have been invited but they're all single so dont have this issue.