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Loveyoulots1 · 14/08/2019 10:45

Split up with someone, they moved on and later you realise you both love each other but it’s too late now?

It’s ex DH, we split in January 2018. He met someone 6 months later, and moved out, we’ve lived apart since. We separated because he was lazy, never helped me with the kids and I felt like he never listened to me. Since separating, we’ve gone out with the kids, he comes round to see them at my house sometimes. Puts them to bed, will sometimes have dinner with them etc. I just wish he was like this before we separated. He has admitted he still loves me, and thinks about me. I love him too. It’s too late now, and it’s so hard to accept. He’s everything I want in a man, we get on so well. It’s just sad that we had to separate in order for him to stop being lazy.

I really love him though, I don’t know what I’m trying to say with this post. Just needed to get it off my chest. Sad

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Loveyoulots1 · 14/08/2019 14:28

You're grieving for the life and future you imagined and wished you would have with him

This is exactly how I feel. You're probably right, he would be the same if we lived together full time. Time to move on I guess.

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