My OH and I are expecting our first baby, I'm currently 9w+2 but we had an early scan last week and all things are progressing well!
My OH friends go on an annual skiing type holiday in February each year, OH has NEVER been interested in going, apart from this year he did consider going in the first instance and then decided against it. For 2020 trip, he has been invited again of course and at first I was quite excited that he was finally going to try ski-ing with them, and then it dwindled on me, I'll be due roughly 10th March 2020, and he is planning a week away in February leaving me at home on my own....
Am I just freaking out for no reason? I'm worried he goes on the holiday and I end up going into labour early, anything can happen I suppose is all I'm saying. I haven't yet mentioned to him, as I'm usually quite laid back and don't want to seem like I'm saying he can't go... I wanted others opinions first. I'm quite anxious about labour and the birth process (I'm sure a lot of people are especially first time mums!) so if this were to happen whilst he was on holiday with his friends I really don't know how I would forgive him or cope, even though I know it wouldn't necessarily be his fault.
Am I being unreasonable if I mention the fact to him that I'll be however many weeks pregnant at that point if he goes and even if there is a slim chance, what happens if I give birth to our child whilst he's out of the country? Should I maybe suggest they go in January instead, do you think this would be less risky?