My ds (5) has been invited to a schools friends birthday party over the summer. When I rsvp ed the mother said please no gifts. I feel a bit always about this tbh. He brought a lovely gift to my boys birthday party- and I would have liked to reciprocate. Anyway, I thought maybe I could make gift voucher for my ds to put in a card. Maybe a voucher for come to ours for a play date with pizza? Or similar? Is that just to naff ? or is it rude to do that if no gifts requested? Aibu to send a home made voucher when no gifts requested?