I have trying to have a second child for six years. I have a condition which makes it difficult and have suffered a miscarriage. Due to my age, heartbreak of trying and MC,potential gap between siblings and my DH being happy with one we are discussing not trying anymore. My friend has had a difficult journey. She has one children naturally but needs IVF for a second. We used to be close but for various reasons have grown apart. She lives abroad so contact is by Skype. I spoke with her recently and I am upset/disappointed but I feel also I am being very sensitive. During the call she asked if we were doing IVF. I told her we got tests went to consultation and were going ahead but then I found out we were pregnant but then I miscarried (I had told her this previously). I found the MC so devastating that I couldn’t go back. I am finding the whole disappointment so difficult every month but because we got pregnant I don’t know if IVF is the answer. Due to my age and the gap we are not sure what to do. She then said yeah so we did one cycle and it failed, than another and guess what I’m five weeks pregnant! I am delighted for her and I know she has had a difficult journey but I felt that the way she said it wasn’t the most sensitive. The next fifteen minutes were spent talking congratulating her and she was also saying that it was much better for her child. I am probably being unreasonable but I just feel that we are not close so she doesn’t need to tell me at five weeks and the dramatic drum roll the story was told was maybe more suitable for another friend who hasn’t just discussed with you the pain they feel regarding a mc. She has asked that I discuss it with no one and I won’t. I am delighted for her. I have had friends and colleagues become pregnant and I have always been v happy for them so I don’t know why I am upset by this. I think it was the way it was communicated. Am I being too sensitive?