Being called fat

[Lollipop111]

I'm 19 weeks pregnant and my partner called me a fat c**t today he always wants to be drinking on weekends. I can feel my confidence really going i hate what I see in the mirror. He's always called me fat in a row even befor i was pregnant. Makes me feel so rubbish

OP, do you think he specifically decides to use "fat" as an insult because he knows you are insecure about your weight?

I'm a size 16 and very happy with my body size now - I'd be much more concerned about being called a cunt.

I'd suggest contacting MN and asking them to move this to the Relationships board. To do this, hit the "Report" link on your original post and just put "other reasons" and "please move to Relationships". (Sorry I'm not sure what it looks like on the mobile version, I'm an old person who doesn't understand this newfangled smartphone rubbish!)

I'm so sorry to say but you need to leave him. This will get worse.

He's a nasty piece of work OP. You're carrying his child. You should have his love and support, not horrible insults.
Are you seriously going to be happy raising a family with a man who calls you a cunt?
I hope you have family or friends for support. I'd be considering my future if I were you. He's being horrible.

The future doesn't look.rosy tbh.

There's a lot of LBT on MN, and you know what? They've always been on the money. Those who protest at its apparent glibness confuse what should be done with what is easy to do.

LBT him for calling you a cunt. LBT for calling you fat.

He's a colossal shit, and your "normally" says you've allowed his disparaging comments. Leave now.

He is an arsewipe. You are worth far more than this. So is your unborn baby.

You need to get away from him, both for you and for your child. You wouldn't want your child to grow up thinking that it is acceptable to behave like this.

YABU

@Lollipop111 .... are you MESSING? Maybe you're being hormonal?! Absolutely fucking not. I'm 37 weeks atm, and by god if my OH ever called me a fat cow or anything of the sort he'd be gone.. obviously you have banter with your partner and what not but the minute that changes from light hearted to actually insulting, I'd be questioning what type of man he is. Never accept anything less than what you deserve my dear, I have learned it the hard way, and some might say I'm fussy but you deserve to be treated with respect especially by someone you love ❤️ and certainly don't let anyone tell you you're 'hormonal', people love to blame their bad behaviour on your emotional state when you're pregnant. I've had nine months of it 😂🙈 hope you sort it with him and he cops on xxx

He sounds revolting. He should not be around your child. You should make plans to leave and seek help from a women’s domestic abuse charity.