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AIBU for wanting this family relocated??

54 replies

TheeVee · 10/08/2019 19:33

This woman and her unruly children got evicted from a house in Efford. They got placed on the same street as me 😭

[link removed at OP's request]

The children (youngest about 6yo) are out at all times, causing a lot of trouble. They shout/sware at the people who live around here.
They vandalise the area, they have thrown stones etc at peoples property, graffiti the area.etc..they are violent towards the other children around here.
Linda shouts/screams/swears at her children all of the time.
Her children litter and vandalise the area. They also badly bully a lot of the children in this area including my DD.
The mother is very racist towards Muslims, and she harasses one of the lovely Muslim family’s on our street. Shouting/swearing racist slurs whenever she sees anybody from this family.

The police won’t do anything, they just say to “log it”
The Muslim family have complained to the council and police about her family, but they keep getting fobbed off.
Does anybody know if we can be listened to? Or what rights we as a community have?

I don’t think I ABU as they have to live somewhere, but surely not here....? Not when they are so anti-social??
I’m prepared to be told I’m wrong, as I’ve not slept well for weeks, so my perspective may be a bit off ? 🤷‍♀️

OP posts:
CheshireChat · 10/08/2019 22:41

And I'm sure people will pay the OP a really good price for her house right next to lovely neighbours like these.

FixItUpChappie · 10/08/2019 23:01

SS is unlikely to do anything - not against the law to be a shit parent just an abusive one under the law. IMO though if they are made homeless due to their own behaviour that is a capacity issue but it's a grey area.

I really feel for you OP. As the poster upthread started - what about the rights of those around them?

What a nightmare Sad

Jamiefraserskilt · 11/08/2019 01:41

Get yourself a video doorbell and ask your neighbours to do the same. It is about proof not heresay. Once proof is gathered then send to the housing association or council with a written complaint and encourage your neighbours to do the same.. in most leases, is a clause 're behaviour. If there is enough evidence to prove they are in breach, their landlords have to act.

BoneyBackJefferson · 11/08/2019 01:44

FixItUpChappie

As the poster upthread started - what about the rights of those around them?

It is about being able to prove what they are doing.

Unfortunately England has a long way to go to try and sort this sort of thing out. In various countries you can be removed from your own home if you are proved to be a nuisance to other neighbours.

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